six times nine?

I've been pondering this question for a while:

How do you move in a new direction in life if you don't know which direction to move in? I feel like I need to, and want to change the course of life, but I can't figure out where I want to go... It's like I'm so frustrated with where I'm at, I don't like what I do, I want to go away. But where?

Aaaaargh! Catch 22! Dangit. I'm stuck in a wierd paradox universe.

Where's the door?